Clockwatchers

Depending upon what job I have held in the past, I have at times classified myself as an early bird, a night owl, and sometimes just the slug that gets eaten by both.

Currently, I have entered into a phase of life many folks are well acquainted with. In fact, they have a face creased by lines of anxiety to show for it.

We are clockwatchers.

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Why? I have teenagers. And they have lives, man.

It’s one thing when you’re the one they depend upon for rides into town, transportation to and from friends, and passage from one activity to the next. We perform a gratuitous service in exchange for the hopeful moment of mere eye contact.

But when they have access to fast moving, gas-guzzling, tune blaring vehicles that either they or their peer counterparts control, the parental mind bolts like dropped marbles, scattering across the floor in unseen, dangerous directions, and foretells life-altering hazards in things as typically innocent as mailboxes, squirrels and rain showers.

Teens are big on taking risks.

This is not news to any person who is in charge of their welfare, but it certainly curls the toes of many adolescents after the fact—or after the fall.

In fact, I vote all teens must wear a piece of clothing that marks them as pubescent and encourages the rest of the village to stop them at any moment simply with the phrase, “Are you sure you’ve thought this through?”

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I bet we could lower the number of smacks on our furrowed foreheads by implementing this tiny technique.

It’s difficult to manage my regular routine when I’ve got two teens out of the house and both expected back at a specific time. Specific to me, but an ever-shifting time frame for them. Something always happens. This is the only predictable part of the outing. And it usually comes in the form of a phone call and a voice on the other end that speaks in dulcet tones reserved for Mother’s Day or my birthday.

I know very few parents who can head off to bed, knowing their teen is nowhere near theirs, and effortlessly lose consciousness. For me, it’s like cracking the spine of a chilling thriller, except for the fact that I’m not actually reading any words. I may be facing in the direction of the printed words on page, but a new author has taken over the invisible plot, rife with ideas meant to twist and churn my gut.

As an evil bonus, there’s a soundtrack.

If there’s wind—I’m dead certain one of the hundreds of overhanging limbs from trees they pass on the way home will come loose, crash upon the car and kill everybody.

If there’s rain—I’m convinced the oils on the road will coat a rising sheet of water, propel them into a ditch and kill everybody.

If there are animals that live on the route my kids take home, they are likely to be the equivalent of teenagers out too late at night, will be encouraged by their rowdy, pack mentality comrades to dart across the road in front of cars for a thrill, will be greeted by the Nerf Ball car my kids drive … and kill everybody.

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If you have teenagers, you are likely well acquainted with the movie reel running in your head that usually ratchets up to Technicolor vibrancy status every time you look at your watch or glance at the clock above the stove. You are waiting for the glide of headlights across the wall by the window, the sound of the car pulling into the drive, the bark of El Protector at the front door—anything that announces the safe arrival of the person or persons you invested umpteen years of energy, money and every wish you made, including those on falling stars, birthday candles, or the heads of a dandelions.

Why is it that no one has been able to push ahead the R & D for apparating? Yes, I know it would be expensive, but hey, JK Rowling has kids who will soon be teenagers, and since she planted the idea in everyone’s heads, I say she might be someone worth considering when petitioning for research funds.

I expect I should get used to the bleary-eyed, puffy-faced person who greets me in the mirror each morning and the slack-jawed, mascara-smudged woman whose reflection waves goodnight each evening. It’s inevitable, as my day starts when the racket of bellowing animal bellies rouses me from slumber, whereas my teens fall out of bed somewhere shortly before I shout out, “DINNER!” Bedtimes are slightly closer together—mine arriving when the sounds of their bedroom laughter, bass lines and Netflix all meld into the audio track of my dreams, and theirs happens when we’ve run out of post midnight snacks in the pantry.

And although I can actually consider myself both an early bird and a night owl at this point in my life, there is no doubt in my mind what category I look most like …

The slug.

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~Shelley

Don’t forget to check out what we’re cookin’ in the Scullery (here) and what we all talked about down in the pub (here). And to see more of Robin Gott’s humor–all from the only pen carved from a human funny bone–click here.

4 thoughts on “Clockwatchers

  1. Always awesome writing here. So I think I’ve got it much easier; just two dogs and two senior citizens to keep track of. Although, those Seniors are certainly troublemakers lately……

    Very fun post……cheers!

  2. Don’t sell yourself short. I’ve seen dogs and senior citizens gang up on their caretakers. Between their leashes and liver treats, walkers and wheelchairs, they are purely scheming to wreak havoc. Locate their scoreboard. They’ve got one. It’s probably hidden under the fiber supplements.
    And thank you for you lovely comments — as always! 😉

  3. G’morning Shells,

    “Have you any idea how many kids it takes to turn off one light in the kitchen? Three. One to say “What light?” and two more to say “I didn’t turn it on.” – Erma Bombeck

    This, my lady, is where I am now. I am shortly planning on opening my own Yoga Serenity Circle Association (YSCA, the “mental” sister exercise club of the YMCA, The Sainctite or Sanctitas for parents only). Offering membership which includes serene untroubled surroundings, a rubber padded room, shock therapy, daily sessions with both a psychologist and a psychiatrist (again offering only the best meds on the market… any market); classes in exorcisms, Dereism, hypnotherapy, psychodynamics, metapsychology, parapsychology, paralogy, how to find the real answer to the question, “why?”… you get the gist, I digress.

    In truth, I believe I have learned more from my three beautiful little girls thus far than I have taught them. C’est la volonté de Dieu, et je suis bien avec ça. True da’t!

    Again, another writing worthy of sharing with my cherished Sunday morning wake up.

    Cheers my love,

    Stoshu 🙂

    • Okay, sign me up. I’ll bite. Any health membership that includes exorcisms sounds too exciting to pass up. Who doesn’t have a few demons they’d like to purge, right?

      But if anyone were to find Erma Bombeck fighting to get outside of me, I’m going to have to ask that she remain where she is. She’d be a devil I could live wtih. 😉

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